Stage 3 · Day 0–1

Stage 3: paying for the item itself

The first payment is domestic. It covers the item price, the freight from the seller to the agent’s warehouse, and the agent’s service fee. International freight is not part of it and will be quoted again later, after the parcel is weighed.

Two things become true the moment this payment clears: the agent has paid the seller, and the item can no longer simply be deleted from a basket. Everything in the cancellation decision tree follows from that.

Last substantive change Monthly batch reviewDay marker is order of events, not a delivery promise — keep your own records
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The list is where the items themselves live. This page is about the stage you are in.

What is open at this stage

Every action below is judged at stage 3, which is highlighted.

Actions at stage 3

Read down a column to see every action available at that stage. Read across a row to see when one action closes.

Actions × order stages. Each cell is the state of one action at one stage; the stage column header links to that stage’s page.
ActionPickDay 0LinkDay 0Pay itemDay 0–1ArriveDay 3–7QCDay 4–8MergeYour callFreightDay 8–12CustomsDay 12–25ReceiveDay 15–40
Cancel the orderStop the order before the item leaves the sellerStill openNothing has been ordered yet, so there is nothing to cancel.Still openThe link is only staged. Deleting it ends the matter at no cost.Last chanceSplit by order state: at [paid] you ask support to cancel; at [Processing] the agent cancels on your behalf and returns the money to your agent balance.ClosedAt [Warehouse] cancellation is no longer the instrument — the item is physically held, and the route becomes a return or exchange.ClosedThe no-reason window runs from the moment the status reaches "Stocked in", so on most orders it is already counting by this stage.ClosedOnce items are merged into a shipping request the order is closed to changes of any kind.ClosedFreight is settled and the parcel has left the agent.ClosedThe parcel is outside the agent’s control entirely.ClosedThe order is complete.
Change the delivery addressChange where the international parcel is finally sentStill openNo parcel exists yet; the address on file can be edited without consequence.Still openThe address is only read when a parcel is created, so it stays freely editable.Still openStill editable — the address matters at shipping, not at the moment of payment.Still openEditable, but read it back before you submit anything.Still openEditable. Correcting it now is what avoids a redirect later.Last chanceLast chance: a shipping request issues a label against whatever address is on file when you submit it.ClosedA label has been issued; a different destination now means a second shipment at your cost.ClosedThe parcel is moving under the issued label.ClosedDelivered or in final delivery; address changes are refused.
Ask for a refundGet the item price back for something that never matchedStill openNothing has been paid, so there is nothing to refund.Still openNothing has been paid yet.Last chanceBefore dispatch a cancellation returns the money to your balance. After dispatch the route is a return agreed with the seller, and the money returns to the balance once it completes.Still openAt [Warehouse] a refund is decided through the 5-day return or exchange window rather than as a cancellation.Still openThis is the stage the window runs in: 5 days, counted as 120 hours from the status change to "Stocked in".Last chanceLast chance before the parcel is sealed. After that the instrument is a damage claim, not a refund.ClosedThe item sits inside a sealed parcel; refunds now run through a claim.ClosedIn transit — a refund is no longer the right instrument.ClosedClosed: after delivery the route is a claim, reported to support within 72 hours of signing.
Return it to the sellerSend the item back for a replacement or a creditClosedNothing to return.ClosedNothing to return.ClosedThe seller has not shipped, so there is nothing to send back.Still openOpen: the 5-day no-reason window applies here. The first return in each calendar month carries no service fee; later ones are charged on a rising scale.Still openThe window is counted in this stage. Excluded from no-reason returns: customised items, underwear, food, second-hand goods, and anything whose tags or packaging were removed as requested.Last chanceLast chance: after merging, return freight is yours and rarely worth it for low-value items.ClosedSealed and shipped; a return now costs more than most items are worth.ClosedIn transit — returns are not possible from here.Last chanceOnly if the item is materially different, and you accept paying the return freight.
Claim for damage or lossClaim against the carrier or the agent for damage, loss or a wrong itemClosedNo international shipment exists.ClosedNo international shipment exists.ClosedNo international shipment exists.ClosedNothing has been shipped internationally.ClosedNothing has been shipped internationally.ClosedNothing has been shipped internationally.ClosedNot yet — but if the box arrives crushed, photograph the outer packaging before opening and keep the box and its tape.Last chanceLast chance to raise a seizure or a return-to-sender case while the parcel is still moving.Still openOpen, and time-boxed: report a damaged or missing parcel to support within 72 hours of signing, and to the local post office within 2 days where delivery was not inspected in front of the courier.
  • Still open — the agent or marketplace accepts the request
  • Last chance — accepted only if the parcel has not moved on
  • Closed — the request is refused at this stage

Where the state boundaries come from. Two layers, kept separate on purpose:

  • Flow dependency — whether a parcel exists, has been sealed, or has left the warehouse. This holds for any agent.
  • Agent rule — Order cancellation and returns by order state, and the 5-day no-reason window. Kakobuy help centre, question id=51, captured 2026-10.
  • Agent rule — Storage limits: 100 days for a normal parcel, 60 days for an unmatched parcel. Kakobuy help centre, question id=1, captured 2026-10.
  • Agent rule — Reporting a damaged or missing parcel: 72 hours to support, 2 days to the post office. Kakobuy help centre, question id=54, captured 2026-10.

These are the wording and boundaries recorded on those dates. They are re-read every month and any change is diffed on the term snapshot pages. Other agents write their own rules; each one is described on its own page rather than assumed here.

What you are asked for here

  • Payment into your agent balance, usually by card, bank transfer or a payment platform.
  • A decision about the declared value, if the agent asks for one at this point.
  • The exchange rate you were actually charged, which is worth recording now rather than reconstructing later.

What money moves at this stage

Charged at this stage, and what is deferred to a later one. Figures are not given because they differ per agent and per line; the structure is what repeats.
LineCovered by this paymentQuoted again later
Item priceYesNo
Domestic freight to warehouseYes, as an estimateOnly if the seller charges more on dispatch
Agent service feeYesNo
International freightNoYes, after weighing
Duty and tax at importNoCollected by the carrier or the destination authority

Three places this stage stalls

The quotation changes between the basket and the payment

Signal. The figure you are asked to pay is higher than the figure you were shown.

What to do. Ask which line moved. Domestic freight estimates are the usual culprit, and sellers do change them at dispatch.

The balance is short by a small amount

Signal. A top-up is requested that is slightly more than the shortfall.

What to do. Top up the shortfall only. A larger top-up leaves money sitting in a balance that may be harder to withdraw than it was to deposit.

The seller takes a long time to dispatch

Signal. The order sits in a paid state with no tracking for several days.

What to do. This is the point where cancelling is still cheap and still depends on the seller agreeing. Decide now rather than after dispatch.

Before you leave this stage

Copyable checklist

These lines are also available as a list you can paste into a message to your agent: open the checklist export, pick stage 3, and copy.

  • You have written down the effective exchange rate you were charged.
  • You know the declared value that was submitted.
  • You know the seller’s dispatch deadline, if the marketplace states one.